In a world dominated by instant messaging and emails, the charm of a handwritten love letter remains undiminished. This Valentine's Day, we're stepping back in time to embrace the elegance of expressing our feelings the old-fashioned way. A love letter is not just a piece of paper; it's a keepsake, a treasure, and a tangible manifestation of your affection.
The Importance of a Physical Letter
A letter carries with it the essence of personal touch—once you put the letters onto paper, speaks volumes more than digital text ever could. It's a reflection of your effort, time, and thoughtfulness, things we all cherish dearly in any relationship. It's not about having the perfect handwriting - if you are able to write well enough to pass a school exam then your handwriting is up to par! If you feel you don't want to physically write the letter then put some effort into the paper you print on - pick a background design you know they will love, you could also put the text into their favourite colour as long as it is dark enough to print out! Speaking of text - you don't need to just use the default font - you can use a handwritten or calligraphy font or one that you just know they'll like.
Remember - this Love Letter is a physical keepsake that they can pickup, touch and hold close to their heart - hopefully for a lifetime.
How to Write a Love Letter
- Dear ... Address them by using a fond nickname or endearment that you use. It doesn't have to start with Dear - go with what feels personal and intimate.
- Start With Genuine Feelings: Begin by reflecting on what your partner means to you. Think about the moments that have strengthened your relationship, about how they make you feel - when you see them or when you think of them.
- Recount Special Memories: Share your favourite memories together. It could be anything from a laugh-filled evening to a challenging time you faced side by side. You could even write about a complete disaster you experienced together - but make sure you concentrate on the positives you both walked away with
- Express Your Hopes for the Future: Talk about your dreams and aspirations as a couple. Where do you see yourselves? What adventures lie ahead? Do you want to travel? Move to another country? Buy and renovate? Have or become a family...
- Remind your partner of your unwavering support and love: This love letter is not just for Valentine's Day—it's a reminder of your affection that your partner can revisit time and again. Make it clear what you will do for them - let them know they can trust you and that you will always be there for them.
- Personalise It: Make your letter unique. Add quotes, sketches, or even a dab of your perfume/cologne to make it distinctly yours.
- Sign Off With Love: Use the nickname or endearment they use for you.
